You made time for intimacy. You're in the mood. She's not. And you don't understand why.

Here's the problem: most men have spontaneous desire. Most women have responsive desire. That means she needs something to happen first before she's feeling it—and "it's 6pm on Tuesday, let's go" isn't going to cut it.

In this episode, we break down what responsive desire actually means, why variety doesn't have to mean the bedroom, and how to create the conditions where she actually wants to be intimate.