Your spouse isn't refusing because they've stopped caring. They're refusing because they're exhausted and hopeless.
"Doesn't want to fix it" and "doesn't believe it can be fixed" are two completely different problems.
When you discover what changes your spouse actually needs to see—and you show up consistently as the person they could fall in love with again—everything shifts.
When they see it, believe it, and trust it's going to stick... that's when putting effort into the marriage starts to feel worth it again. That's what inspires them to stop running and start fighting with you.
This isn't wishful thinking. We've watched it happen hundreds of times.
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