We almost lost everything... then we figured it out together
We're Josh and Cassie Fuller. Married 21 years. Teaching what we learned the hard way for 18 of them.
We met in 2004, fell hard, got married in 2007. If you'd told us back then that we'd end up sitting across from divorce attorneys a few years later, we would've said you were crazy.
But that's exactly where we ended up.
Years of stress, a young son, two demanding careers, and zero communication skills finally caught up with us. We tried everything: therapy, books, workshops. We were literally teaching other couples about connection and intimacy while our own marriage was falling apart behind the scenes.
Nothing worked. We kept trying. It kept getting worse.
Then came a wake-up call that shook us both—a near-fatal car accident that reminded us how short life is with the people we love. It forced us to stop sleepwalking and make the marriage the priority.
But even then, fixing it wasn't quick or easy. The breakthrough didn't come from one conversation or one insight. It came from years of trial and error. Testing what actually worked versus what just sounded good. Throwing out the stuff that didn't help and doubling down on what did. Building a system together, piece by piece.
Eventually, we got it right. The connection came back. The arguments stopped spiraling. We started enjoying each other again, more than we ever had before.
And when other couples saw the change in us, they started asking for help.
That was 18 years ago. Since then, we've refined that system with hundreds of students in situations just as bad as ours was—affairs, separations, divorce on the table. We've trained with coaches who work with Olympic athletes and Fortune 500 CEOs. We've tested every piece of what we teach in the real world.
And we've proven that when one person is committed and has the right system, a marriage can be saved even when the other spouse has checked out.
In this podcast episode, we tell the full version: how we met (which involves handcuffs ), how we fell apart, the car accident that changed everything, and how we rebuilt it all from scratch.
Twenty-one years in, we run a business together, spend almost all our time together, and are more in love than when we started.
That's not a line. When you go through what we went through and come out the other side, the marriage you build is different. It's not just "good again." It's better than before.
Our son just graduated college. Our daughter has emotional skills at her age that we wish we'd had at 19. We get to do work that matters with people we care about.
We fought for this. And now we help others do the same.
If two people who came in as damaged as we did, who fought as badly as we did, who got as close to the edge as we did—if we can turn it around, so can you. It doesn't matter where you're at or how dark things feel right now.
And still, when someone is committed and has the right system, things can be turned around. That's what we've spent 18 years proving.
You've read this far because part of you still believes in your marriage.
That part of you is right.
The 48-Hour Reboot is the fastest way to create a breakthrough and see if this approach is right for you.
If your situation is more complex, apply for a call and we'll help you figure out the right path forward.
